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Maybe you don’t end up with the person your heart chooses. Maybe that’s not how life works. Maybe you don’t get what you want. Maybe you end up finding what you need, and maybe the Universe knows what you need more than you do.

Maybe love changes. Maybe it goes from “I’ll wait up and call you after work,” to “I’m going to sleep, I’m tired.” Maybe it goes from “You have nothing to worry about,” to “I really wish you didn’t overthink so much.” Maybe it goes from “I choose you,” to “I have to choose myself right now.”

Maybe love isn’t one of those things that grows with certain people. Maybe you become too big for it. Maybe it becomes too uncomfortable, too small for who you change into. Maybe it’s like that sweater you always loved growing up, or your childhood bed. You learn to appreciate it for what it was, but you come to terms with the fact that you have outgrown it. You learn to let it go.

And maybe letting go of love isn’t some loud celebration at the end of a dark tunnel. Maybe letting go is the moment you decide that you can no longer keep the past alive inside of you. Maybe it is quiet, maybe there is no checklist, or way of telling if it has actually happened. Maybe it is simply just you learning how to release your grip, how to let things be, how to lay down your arms. Maybe that is how it's done — in the silence of it all, in the calmness of everyday life.

I am starting to learn that maybe walking away is the best thing you can do for yourself, and for the person you love. Maybe walking away is you making peace with the fact that sometimes things and people and happiness changes. Maybe it is the bravest thing you can do. Maybe, when you walk away, you’re not making the biggest mistake of your life. Maybe, when you walk away, your life is just beginning.

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Helo, bertemu lagi sama gue yak. Udah lama gak update blog lagi, sorry banget ya. Oiya , selamat tahun baru ya! Maaf telat ngucapinnya di blog, tapi kalo di twitter sama facebook udah kok. Stalking aja! :v Malem-malem gini gue mau kembali ngeblog lagi nih. Btw, masih pada nerima gue kan jadi tukang ketik di blog Amburadul ini kan? Nerima gak nerima gapapa deh, yang penting bisa bermanfaat bagi gue dan kalian semua pembaca setia blog yang gak untuk dibaca . Oiya kemarin gue ngga sengaja liat vidio riset gitu di laptop teme gue,yaudah gue coba aja ngikut ngikut buat vidio riset,tapi berhubung jaringan=kuota nggak emadai buat upload video,yaudah jadilah tulisan ini,hope you like it :) Banyak orang yang bingung kenapa saat putus, cowok kelihatan biasa biasa aja sedangkan cewek kayaknya tertekan banget ni ya gue kasi ilustrasinya : Cewek   : “ halohh,lo lagi dirumah nggak ? gue kerumah lo sekarang yaaah *nada melas gituu *nyampe rumah temennya “Guee...
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aku masih disini,masih berdiri di tempat yang sama. aku tak benar benar pergi darimu,aku hanya menepi dan membiarkan mu bahagia dengan jalan yang kau pilih. aku selalu menjagamu dalam diam, melihatmu dari kejauhan dan merindukanmu dalam sepi. kembalilah jika kau mau tak usah terburu-buru. 13 Desember 2021
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